I don't have rosacea, but I suspect my mom does, or some other extremely inflammatory skin condition that makes her skin raw. I make suggestions all the time (no beer, more water, less red meat) and try to bring her samples of skin care products like dermalogica but she just ignores me. I understand that she has had her skin condition for a long time, but her attitude towards her disease is...shitty. She's not taking responsibility for her health, and I feel under appreciated since I must do virtually all of the house chores (taking care of dog, laundry, dishes, cleaning bathroom, sweeping vacuum dusting). It makes me not want to spend my spare time with her, and if I did it would just be us sitting on the couch watching tv because she cant do anything/ is unwilling to try. Most of the time I ignore her complaining because she does make me feel that it is my fault that she has this skin condition and I do not. I cant so anything for her and she wont.