My Story

[togaman1304]

OK..here goes...Ima teenage guy whose about to be 16, i've had Rosacea ever since, and also sebhorric dermatitis, (to be clear that's the one where it makes your head itch and causes dandruff or dandruff looking flakes?) anyways I just made an account here to say my story and feel like i'm not the only one out there. But the main reason i'm writing this is to express my pain I've had in relationships and trying to meet women and talking to them. I've been a whopping 0-8 in my life when asking a girl out, whether it be a date, movies, relationships, etc..etc...for you that might think that number might seem low, its only low because i've only went for women who I thought wouldn't judge me by my face...of course I was wrong..and my face turns to this uncomfortale smile and the dreaded words..."sorry ***** your a really sweet guy and really nice, and awesome, but i'm just busy this weekend, or im not interested"...Story of my life. Then I wonder to myself why dare ask or be in love if nobody is willing to look past me as just a friend, Unlike most people that I read who has Rosacea, i'm not really shy in most social places, such as school, you could even consider me the class clown, but when it comes to trying to impress a woman, one-on-one, face-to-face I don't stand a chance because i get crippled with shyness and thoughts that the girl is thinking "umm why is this red freak talking to me?" This thing sucks!!! The worst part is that all those women pursued are now my friends and we talk and laugh on a daily basis, but the thing that ticks me off is that when they say,.. "oh your such a great guy, your a sweetheart" I wonder "then why didn't you give me a chance"? and then I see there boyfriend who i'm usually good friends with and i see a guy with muscles, and of course...A PERFECT FACE!! So i pretty much get the picture on why I didn't get that chance. The worst part is that the lights in my high school really irritate my face and by the time i get home i cringe to get myself to the mirror and see how i look, because i already know the result.. . So whatever I usually try to clear my head with basketball...but oh thats right..its out in the sun! Scratch that off..HMMM maybe I should work out and build some mucscles?...oohh thats right exceicse makes me look like a tomato! Anyways all i'm asking is that if you stayed this long to finish it, can you please give me some words of encouragement so I can hang in there? Or a tip about women, or something! I feel totally useless when it's the weekend and all my friends are out at the movies with their girls..and what am i doing? thats right, nothing . Only bright side is that i believe i'm going to start taking Oracea soon. Sorry idk if this is the right section or not for this stuff

[t3dstrik3r]

Hey Togaman

At your age you will get turned down on many occasions, purely because girls at that age or so shallow.
I had only mild acne when growing up, I didn't have cysts, dry skin or redness......I only had spots.
Jeez I couldn't tell you how many times I got blown out, I just got referred to as pizza boy and ewwww you have spots.
In the end I stopped asking girls out.
The good thing is, in a couple of years these girls will have grown up a bit, I see no end of fellas 18+ with severe acne (and I mean severe) with stunning women......give it time things will change in a year or 2 after you have left school, girls at school have an obsession with appearences.
I think I was about 18 and started clubbing and started knocking about with ppl who had good dress sense, once I changed my hairstyle and clothes jesus I was pulling all the time, it did not matter as much about how your face looked.
Oh one more thing......I was shy but once I started pulling that went straight out the window..............also some women love the shyness so if you do grow out of it....keep some of it cos its frickin awesome trick at pull women!!!!

No offence ladies!!!


Rob

[togaman1304]

thanks rob, I just needed to hear that, thanks man