Looking very sweet, my dear!
The day after tomorrow (Friday), when you apply the honey again, wet your hair and towel-dry it before you start. That will make it easier to part and apply the honey. Also, see if you can get a long tail comb - actually, now that I think about it, a chopstick may work too. Oh, and you don't need to cover your hair with honey, just the scalp.
I would stop using the Selsun Blue on the face. Use it on the scalp only a couple of times a week, if you wish, but don't let it touch your face.
This is important: apply the oil thinly. When the oil is solid is easier to measure (it liquefies at 76 F so if your place is rather warm, keep the oil in the fridge). You only need a pea-size amount for the whole face. Rub it between your fingers and apply. If you put too much coconut oil on your face, it might saturate the skin and you'll wake up with pimples, which I'm sure you can do without. So, easy on the oil.
Tomorrow morning, cleanse with something very mild or just water for now, and moisturize with the coconut oil.
What cleanser have you been using, btw?